We have assisted many Kansas City residents through the divorce process while helping them safeguard what matters most. Avoiding common mistakes is essential because they can impact custody decisions, finances, and your overall sense of security. In this video, our CEO, David Crum, Esq., explains the main dos and don’ts of divorce and shows how early mistakes can slow your case before it even starts.
Legal Guidance That Can Safeguard Your Case
4 Common Mistakes People Make During a Divorce
Going through a divorce is emotional, and it’s easy to make decisions that unintentionally hurt your case. Even simple mistakes can carry serious consequences in court. Here are some of the most common mistakes couples make while their divorce is still in progress:
1. Keep Children Out of Conflict
Never let disagreements play out in front of your kids. Courts frown on parents who argue, fight, or discuss divorce matters around children. Even if you think they aren’t noticing, kids absorb more than you realize. Protecting them from conflict helps their well-being and strengthens your custody case.
2. Choose Your Words Carefully
Anything you say during a divorce can be used in court. Angry texts, voicemails, or social media posts don’t just vanish—they can become evidence. It’s natural to get emotional, but lashing out can make the court question your ability to co-parent responsibly.
3. Keep Requests Reasonable
Judges look for fairness when deciding custody and visitation. Demands that are extreme or inconsistent, like suddenly seeking more time or trying to block the other parent, can make you seem uncooperative. Staying reasonable helps maintain your credibility and supports your case.
4. Think Before You Post Online
Your social media activity can be seen by the court. Photos of parties, harsh comments, or publicly discussing your divorce may reflect negatively on you. Even deleted posts can come back during discovery, so consider carefully before sharing anything online.
Working with the Divorce Attorneys at Kansas Legal Group
Divorce can be challenging, but you don’t have to face it alone. At Kansas Legal Group, our Kansas City divorce attorneys have the expertise to safeguard your rights throughout the entire process. Whether your case involves custody, property division, support, or a combination of these issues, we offer the guidance you need to make informed decisions and prevent costly errors.
Call us today at 913.456.5738 to get started.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How Much Does a Divorce Lawyer Cost in Kansas?
The average cost of divorce in Kansas City ranges from $4,000-$15,000. The amount is unique to each situation and is dependant upon the complexities of the case. Read more.
How Much Does It Cost to File for Divorce in Kansas?
In Kansas, the cost to file for divorce is $195. Read more.
How is Property Divided in Kansas City?
Both Kansas and Missouri are equitable distribution states. In Kansas City, property is divided based on what is fair, not necessarily equal. Courts look at the length of marriage, each spouse’s financial situation, family obligations, and other factors when dividing property. Read more.
How to Get Child Custody in Kansas City?
Child custody in Kansas City is awarded based on the child's best interests. Read more.
How to Get Child Support in Kansas City?
Child support in Kansas City is awarded based on a variety of factors, like the income of both parties, how many children are involved, health needs, extra-curricular activities, and so on. Read more.
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